مالا يؤدي عمله ستسمع عنه كالأشباح مثلا

 Neo:

 Are there other programs like you?

 

The Oracle: 

Oh, well, not like me. But… Look, see those birds? At some point a program was written to govern them. A program was written to watch over the trees, and the wind, the sunrise, and sunset. There are programs running all over the place. The ones doing their job, doing what they were meant to do, are invisible. You’d never even know they were here. But the other ones, well, we hear about them all the time.

 
Neo:

 I’ve never heard of them.

 
The Oracle: 

Of course you have. Every time you’ve heard someone say they saw a ghost, or an angel. Every story you’ve ever heard about vampires, werewolves, or aliens is the system assimilating some program that’s doing something they’re not supposed to be doing.

 
Neo: 

Programs hacking programs. Why?

 
The Oracle: 

They have their reasons, but usually a program chooses exile when it faces deletion.

 
Neo: 

And why would a program be deleted?

 
The Oracle:

 Maybe it breaks down. Maybe a better program is created to replace it – happens all the time, and when it does, a program can either choose to hide here, or return to The Source.

From the Matrix Reloaded (2)

محاولة للتخمين : لماذا قد ننجذب جسديا نحو شخص بعينه ؟ و لا ننجذب نحو آخر ؟

I think it has to do with one's attitude in life and the energy he is generating.
I mean, yes, you can be attracted psychologically or emotionally towards someone, but not necessarly turned on towards him because simply he does not generate that kind of power that attracts you.
you'll find him that kind of person that is not so passionate about anything.
He fears passion, or simply accepts whatever he can get from life, but not insisting to pursuit an aim or pursuit happiness in his own life.
So, how can you expect that he may attract you even physically?
Sex is not that inferior as they let us think.
Sex is the essential thing for life and pleasure however we are thinking about it as a guilt or a mere animal instinct.

So, You are attracted sexually towards those who generate life in their existence, their power and enthusiasm attracts your desire to live, even if that power or energy is directed to other things that don't have to do with relationships, work for example, any specific hobby or aim in life. And that what we may call sometimes"love at first sight" while it is a mere physical attraction.

On the other hand, You will loose soon any attraction towards those who lost their desire to live or enjoy their own lives whatsoever how much you respect or like or evaluate them.

مجرد محاولة لإجابة هذا السؤال :

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_a_man_be_attracted_to_a_woman_but_not_be_sexually_attracted_to_her

مقتطفات من مقال عن الباراسيكولوجي أعتقد أن له إرتباط بشكل ما بالموضوع - بإعتباري الإنجذاب نوع من أنواع التخاطر :
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ولهذا كان أكثر مظاهر التخاطر شيوعاً حينما يكون المرسل منفعلاً ومستحضراً بشكل قوي لأدق التفاصيل عن الشخص المرسل إليه ( نبرة الصوت - الوجه - المشية - الجلسة- الابتسامة-رائحة الجسد)بعد تحديد الرسالة وتصور الشخص المرسل إليه لابد أن تنفعل وتتحدث إليه بصوت لو أمكن أن تشعر نفسك أنك في اتصال معه وبعضهم يؤكد أن هناك ما يسمى إحساس المعرفة وهو أنك ستتلقى شعوراً أشبه ما نراه في (عالم الاميل الانترنتي) يعلمك بوصول الرساله إلى الآخر!ربما تصله بشكل منام أو أن يسمع صوتا.. أو يشعر بجسدك قريباً منه.. أو تصله على صورة فكرة ما يمتثل لها لا شعورياً كحال المنوم مغناطيسياً وهكذا..ولكي تكون الفكره مؤثرة في الآخر فيجب ان تكون قوية وكثيفة (مركزة)، فالفكر الضعيف أو الفكرة التي نتجت من تركيز مختل، لا يمكن أن تؤثر ..فإنه لكي تصل الفكره وتحدث تأثيرها في الآخرين لابد منمستقبل لديه الإستعداد والإسترخاء والفراغ في قلبه لمثل هذه الفكرة، إذن هناك مرسل يلزمه فكرة قوية مركزة وهو الذي يسميها "وليم ووكر" الحصر الفكري..! وهناك محل قابل من المرسل إليه بأنيكون مسترخياً ومهئياً لاستقبال الفكرة المرسلة!فإنك حينما تفكر في شخص فإن هناك تياراً اثيريا أو مساراً ينبعث بينكما من خلاله تنطلق الفكرة.. ولكي تصل لابد من طاقة وقوة وشحنة كهرومغناطيسية قادرة على تأدية المهمة!وبالتالي فإنه إذا كان المرسل إليه لا يمتلك وسائل الدفاع عن نفسه (ذهنياً ونفسياً) بقدرته على التواصل مع نفسه والتعرف على ما هو من صميم فكره وما هو دخيل ( ولأن هذه المهارة نادرة وصعبة) فإن التأثر بالآخر إثر رسالة ذهنية شيء وارد وساري المفعول !وليس مهماً أبداً أن يكون المرسل قريباً من مكان المرسل اليه فالزمان والمكان أبداً ليسا ذا أهمية إطلاقاً..إلا أنه وإن كانت المعرفةة بين المرسل والمرسل إليه ليست مهمة أيضاً إلا أنه إذا كانت هناك علاقة عاطفية بينهما فإن التأثير يكون أقوى وأشد بينهما والأقوى منهما يحصل منه التأثير بقدر مايمتكله من قدرة ذهنية ونفسية فوق طبيعية!ولهذا كان المحب يحرك المحبوب إليه فيتحرك بحركة الرسالة الذهنية منه إليه حتى يصبح الثابت (المحبوب) متحركاً (محباً) بحركة المحب ولهذا أيضاً يحسن بالانسان أن يحسن اختيار صحبته لأن الرفقة والصحبة يحركون الإنسان بقدر ما لديهم من حب له فالحب محرك قوي ويسري في الإنسان وتأثيره بشكل خفي ولطيف!

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هذه الأفكار التي تنبعث منا إلى الاخرين لا تذهب سدى.. بل كل فكر ينطلق منا وينطلق من الاخرين نحونا.. كل فكر يسبح في الفضاء فإنه يؤثر فينا ونتأثر به.. ونحن إما أن نكون في دور المؤثر أو المتأثر.. الفاعل أو المنفعل.. فما من شيء نفكر به ونركز عليه إلا ويلقى محلاً يؤثر فيه.. فالأفكار كما قيل هي عبارة عن أشياء وإن كانت لا ترى، لكن لها تأثيرها كالهواء نتنفسه، ونستنشقه ونتأثر به وهو لا يرى! كما أن هناك تموجات صوتية لا تسمعها الأذن! وتموجات ضوئية لا تدركها العين! لكنها ثابته!وبالتالي بات ضرورياً أن ندرك أهمية ما تفعله الأفكار فينا من حيث لا نشعر..هل مر بك أن شعرت بشعور خفي يسري فيك مثل أن تكون في حالة ايجابية وفجأه تتحول إلى حالة سلبية.. ربما كان ذلك بسبب أنك أتحت بعض الوقت للتفكير بفلان من الناس.. فالتفكير بأي إنسان كمايقول علماء الطاقه يتيح اتصالاً أثيرياً بينكما يكون تحته أربع احتمالات، إما أن يكون هو إيجابياً وأنت إيجابي فكلاكما سيقوي الآخر! أو أنه إيجابي وأنت سلبي وهنا أنت ستتأثر به فتكونإيجابياً وهو سيصبح سلبياً أو أن تكون أنت إيجابياً وهو سلبي أو أن تكونا سلبيين وهذا أخطرهم! كذلك حين تفكر بالخوف أو الشجاعة بالحب أو البغض فإن جميع النماذج التي حولك وجميع الأشخاص الذين هم أمامك ممن يعيشون نفس هذا الشعورسينالك منهم حظ، بمعنى أنك لو فكرت بالشجاعة فإن كل شجاعة تطوف حولك ستهبك من خيرها وإن فكرت في الخوف فإن كل خوف حولك وكل خوف يحمله إنسان أمامك سينالك منه حظ وهكذا.. اذن:1- نحن نتأثر ونؤثر في الآخرين عبر مسارات فكرية ذهنية غير مرئية..2- أننا نجذب إلينا ما نفكر فيه!3-أننا وإن كنا على حالة إيجابية فإننا معرضون للحالات السلبية لو كان محور تفكيرنا في نماذج هي الآن تعيش حالة سلبية.. "

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معلومات على الويكبيديا عن ال

sexual attraction or sex appeal

If you are not growing, you are dying

What is happening to a seed or a plant that is not growing?
Obviously, it’s in the process of dying!
If you don't nurture a seed or a plant, it dies.

You’re the same way: if you're not growing, you're dying. That’s why it’s imperative that you never stop growing and that you never stay in a place where you don't grow. It’s simply too dangerous.

You must choose the GROWTH path so that you remain an evergreen achiever who never dies.

The idea of growth is simple, straightforward, and easy to understand. However, there is a trap that most people fall into.

Some people DO continuously grow – and yet all those people die anyway! How do you suppose that happens?

It is not enough to grow. You must grow with passion AND purpose!

For seven years, I’ve been helping unfulfilled professionals find the right path in which they can transform their lives from making a living to making a difference.

Of course, I couldn’t have achieved all of that, if I wasn’t clear about my life’s purpose. Clarity made me able to make critical decisions and take the right action at the right time.

It always happens like this:
You take a job because it provides you with the money you need to live a good life.
Then, you become a good employee and start getting more work to do and gaining more responsibilities.
By time, you become an experienced talent and start attracting opportunities to work for other companies with better offers ... and you move on.
25 years later...
You wake up to realize that you’ve spent your life fulfilling other people’s purpose!!

You’ve been very busy to think about what YOU truly want to do with your life.
When you live your life in a traditional safer way, and stop doing what you really want to do, you end up lacking satisfaction in your life.

What makes the real difference is to embrace the passion and nurture it!

You can't plant a seed in the wrong soil and in the wrong environment. You can't grow oranges in the summer! For the seed to grow and become fruitful and valuable, it must be planted in the right soil and in the right environment.

Discover Your Life’s Purpose
There are many ways to discover your purpose in life. There are lots of books, home study courses, workshops, seminars and assessments that can help you discover your life’s purpose.
However, the best method I’ve ever known is through working one-on-one with a Life Purpose Coach.

Fact: “Every single successful person had a coach”
A life purpose coach helps you become crystal clear about your life’s purpose. And most importantly, he holds you accountable for taking actions that will put you on the right track.

Discover how to find a career that you are passionate about and get the most out of your career aspirations.
See your current circumstances as stepping stones rather than brick walls that you just can't seem to break through.
Do what matters most to you - The thing that fits perfectly with the rest of your life and you enjoy it fully.
Realize what you do best, what you love to do the most, AND how you can make a prosperous living doing these things while adding enormous value to other people’s life.
Feel strengthened, empowered or fulfilled by your activities than ever before. Every moment of your life takes on greater meaning and passion - rather than seeming pointless and boring.
Be so enthusiastic about your life that you wake up each morning looking forward to another wonderful day, and being enthusiastic about what lies ahead.
Knowing in your heart that you are doing exactly what you were put on this earth to do.
Stop doing what you don't like and start doing what really makes you happy!

From “Uncertain About Which Life/Career Path Is Right For You?!” by Mohamed Tohamy

More Imagination for the Sake of Reality

I need to strengthen the wings of my imagination, so that I can fly to whatever place I wanna be on the land of reality.‎

The First Step

In front of my rapture backed by one of art galleries we came across, she exclaimed:

" You are an artist then!"
" Not at all. Don't know even how to draw. Just like to watch."

For the rest of our way together, my friend tried hardly to figure it out and to understand that complicated dilemma of how one may love art, especially plastic arts, and be able to communicate with them while not being an artist himself.

Actually, this is not the case of my friend only. It is the normal question heard when someone "discovers" that you read poetry for example while not being a literature student nor a poet yourself.
It is the normal question in any art gallery:

" Are you a Fine Art student? " , the normal skepticism :

" Do you really get anything from such scribble? " to have then a long vivid discussion that turns to be part of my own enjoyment.

In fact, you don't have to "understand" anything at the first sight. You have to "feel" first. Coming to this point, I always remember that scene of Shadia playing that role of an ignorant crashed servant in that old Egyptian movie," Nahno La Nazraa El-Shawk" \ " We Don't Plant Thorns", admiring a painting so much that she begged the lady to take it. She felt that painting seeing herself in it.

Yea, in a way , we can seek ourselves in art looking for our pits and pieces scattered between light and shadowing or carried out in some shape or color mixture or movement of lines. Art is the mirror that one can discover his countenance in.

Thereby, people sometimes fear real art, fear their hidden feelings and thoughts, fear both their uniqueness and their dark sides. Stephen Spender, English author and critic, mentioned once that the true artist awakens geniality in people.

On the other hand, Freud saw that the artist vomits any psychological disorder he has in his art; consequently, his audience do the same when communicating with this art.

However, art has to do with what is more than the mere light and dark sides in us. It opens our eyes letting us into new worlds or rather new conception of this world. Art is a treasure that most people haven't the necessary patience and courage to unfold it. Courage to look in its mirror and patience to find the keys of its secrets.

The first time I stood before a painting, I was in a deep water. Then, something whispered in my ears: " Patience! The artist painted this over several days or probably several months; wouldn't that deserve several minutes to contemplate? Your eyes will lead your feelings and mind."

Then, the crystal ball was opened; I began to feel things, percept others, find out new dimensions and relationships that govern the painting world, and felt a strange wave in my mind as if some sort of light is turned on there. It is like being tired, sleepy, and bored then having a good cup of coffee.

After all, the first rule of art is laid down: Art doesn't provide a ready made answers, it provokes the sighted questions with their infinite possibilities. Before a piece of art, just try to put your questions and a fruitful prologue will be there between it and you.

Few steps up

I don't like forwarded messages, that's true, but I have recieved a nice one . I admired some specific points in it which I do agree with greatelly. Without much speech, here they are:

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When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct

it

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson

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Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk

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When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer,smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know

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Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

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Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice

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When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

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When you say, 'I love you ,' mean it

( Actually I don't prefer words to convey feelings, I may re-write the sentence as follows:

When you love, mean it )

True, Very True

Happiness is not having a perfect life

but

learning to live beyond imperfections

an old zeal

I don't know why she came to my mind again : Julia , or Nancy Lee Grahn in Santa Brabra soap opera that I were fond of many years ago .

In fact , she was the one that caught my attention and admiration although she wasn't the central female character .


Ted: Oh, come on Julia, haven't you ever been in love?
Julia: Yes. I've also had scarlet fever and the measles. Ask me which one I liked best.








Mason, or Lane Daves, was the one she loved & never told about her feelings, although he was the one she made sex with in order to get her own child - there was a contract between them two about that .
Mason was as a perplexed character as Julia . He , like her, was that kind of character that loves & dosen't consume words to convey love , that is responsible & tender while showing the oppesite.

Julia & Mason are the most beloved characters i have ever met in my life whether in fiction or in life.
A wish : I 'm really looking forward to encounter such personalities in my life again .
Im getting sick of all tenderness-pretender people & those complimentary ones , maybe for I myself am not one of them .





Gina: Mason be nice. Act normal for a change.
Mason: Nice isn't normal for me.

Happened Recently

A Horoscope Reading

" In a prior life, Yasmeen , you were a complete free spirit, letting the wind take you wherever you wanted to go, without concern for others. You traveled far on spiritual or philosophical quests, gaining knowledge wherever you went.
Your thirst for knowledge for a number of lifetimes has left
you unfocused. You see all of
possibilities, yasmeen, but can not see the whole
picture. If you can see a complete picture, you have difficulty seeing yourself in relationship to
it

You have possibly spent lifetimes as a religious mystic,
philosopher, academic or even a transient"

This is what my " karmatic reading " says . Actually I ve subscribed in an astorological site , although I was not believing in such matters , just for trying it & for some fun .
But the whole matter turned upside- down , for I became more concerned in reading my daily horoscope & my zodiac-signe characteristics & the like.
It's been a norml question to ask someone I m holding a conversation with about his zodiac signe .

The point is not that I believe that such matters r right or telling the truth , but it is that these things r orderd , focused , well- planned .
& when im reading my own daily horoscope , I feel as if these daily words understand me & give me some organisation to my thoghts and some trust in my self:

"The only limit is your imagination, so dream as big as you can. Put aside any and all self-criticism and let your mind roam. The one word that's completely not allowed right now? Impossible. "

These words can be said to anybody & have its effect , & that s why I read them comfortably .

" Go above and beyond the requirements, especially your own. Take up a team sport. Sign up for a dance class. It's time to get your feet moving and your blood pumping. Your spirits will lift accordingly"


& these what I really felt & wanted somebody to encourage me to do . Nobody I 've found to support me but such words in a horoscope reading !!!!!

the first step

I have just signed in an empolyment site , but when it came to the point of filling in my c.v , I closed the page.
I know very well that my true problem is in my indecision about what I really want in life. I ve got an inadequate job just because I havent a clear vision . Even when I do pray or wish , always I make such generalizations as :
" Please God , make me find a job that " suits " me & that I can find myself in " , or , " I want such a creative work that can make me wholly involved & absorbed in " , " I want to be in my true place" , " I want to do a distinguish thing in this world " , ------etc, etc.
What this specific work or job would be? there is rarely an answer .
Even when the answer is there, I don't really believe in or work for .

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P.S :

it seemed to me that it s better to start solving my own problems first .
And here is the first step : a trial to indicate what it is.

Now , I got it

" The food of feeling is action . Let a person have nothing to do for his country , and he will not care for it ."

Stuart Mill

" Nostalgia "

what a subject!!

In fact , I lost mine .

strictly speaking , I freed it , opened its cage allowing it to fly away .

I'm now in a complete separation from what I was, what my past was, who my close friend , lover , teacher, colleage and the like was.

My memories upon things , incidents or moments don't bear but instructions for my coming life .

I put it forth once :" My past is a grave that I just put my flowers and smile upon "

But there is still some kind of nostalgia, but mine is for what yet to come not what has already past .

I always have that feeling that I 'm being a different girl each time I experience something new , even if that " thing " is just a good movie or music .

A Beginning

" I have a duty to worth myself as a human being"


Nora in " a Doll's House" by Ibsen

Just One Last Dance

Listen

Sarah Conner

Just one last dance....oh baby...
just one last dance

We meet in the night in the Spanish
café

I look in your eyes just don't know
what to say

It feels like I'm drowning in salty
water
A few hours left 'til the sun's gonna
rise
tomorrow will come an it's time to
realize
our love has finished forever

how I wish to come with you

(wish to
come with you)
how I wish we make it through

Chorus:
Just one last dance
before we say goodbye
when we sway and turn round
and round and round
it's like the first time
Just one more chance
hold me tight and keep me warm
cause the night is getting cold
and I don't know where I belong
Just one last dance

The wine and the lights and the
Spanish guitar
I'll never forget how romantic they
are
but I know, tomorrow I'll lose the one
I love v

There's no way to come with you
it's the only thing to do

Chorus:
Just one last dance
before we say goodbye
when we sway and turn round and
round and round
it's like the first time
Just one more chance
hold me tight and keep me warm
cause the night is getting cold
and I don't know where I belong
Just one last dance

Chorus:
Just one last dance
before we say goodbye
when we sway and turn round and
round and round
it's like the first time
Just one more chance
hold me tight and keep me warm
cause the night is getting cold
and I don't know where I belong
Just one last dance

Chorus: Just one last dance
before we say goodbye
when we sway and turn round and
round and round
it's like the first time
Just one more chance
hold me tight and keep me warm
cause the night is getting cold
and I don't know where I belong
Just one last dance

Just one last dance, just one more
chance, just one last dance